Sandy’s advice to her 18 year old self: Two pieces of advice. The first is go get a lawyer to sue SUNY for not getting into the school you really wanted. I was rejected from a SUNY school and found out years later that they had a quota against girls. The second is ignore everything you were told and go with your heart. Then take a statistics course so that you can major in psychology at Duquesne. I was scared to take a statistics course and never did – therefore ruining my chances to get an advanced degree in psychology. Never let your fears hold you back I learned later and go by that rule.