Caroline’s advice to her 18 year old self: I should have pushed back on my parents a long time earlier than I did, with regards to my sexual preference. I would have been kinder to my brother in college. I feel badly about that. I would have taken more ownership of my career choices than I did. I just kind of bounced around and I didn’t have a clear vision of what I wanted to be at 18. I didn’t take the time to think about it. I was on a treadmill. I had gotten into the college I wanted to go to and I was just going. I didn’t form it or formulate it. I also would have made different choices personally. It was hard.